Does The State have a right to name our own children?

Should The State Name Our Children?

My granddaughter born over 3 months ago still remains ‘officially as unnamed’ – though the choice by her parents was Sibel.

See what Sibel means here – ****

This is me playing with my new granddaughter ‘Sibel’ – which the Authorities still refuse to accept because is ‘not Omani nor Islamic”

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Is somebody out there who can correct these simple things affecting simple Omani families with No Wastah? Influence??

Things need to change … and fast too!

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Does The State have a right to name our own children?

I would say a definitive and affirmative yes – but sense and sensibility need to prevail also! Though I  think it is Shakespeare that had said a rose named by any other name would smell just as sweet! Of course with the Cynics adding ‘mind the thorns’!

If I wanted to name my son as Cheetah, Tiger or Lion in East Africa they would look me up in my face and ask me to have my head examined! But yet I have a son named as Fahad (Cheetah) because a great king had the same name!

Recently my son tried to name his newly born daughter as SIBEL – which has meaning of something like rain drops before it hits the ground – and so many other varied meanings – like Oracle, Prophetess etc – but all good and nothing bad in reality! It is also a common name in Turkey after a famous actress! Sebil Kekilli, Sebil Redzip – Muslim Turkish names! See images.

His application has been turned down continuously – even though the name is ‘in the acceptable names dictionary list’! Even after formed a committee to study the name! Like in most committees if you make annoyance in the beginning of your application – and especially to the influential person in the committee – who will see that his view reigns supreme!

These kind of ‘red tape and bureaucracy’ still irks and upset people very much  – despite all the changes being propagated and in modern tools and apparatuses! Our public officials will not change – it is in-built in them as ‘part and parcel’ of what they really are – and will not change!

For me personally I prefer respect and esteem than building big infrastructures etc – whilst the things in the public offices have simply not changed! But if these things can happen to even the highest public institutions in the country that should lead by real examples more than rather preach and rhetoric – I simply ask the favourite question like in my columns – what else is new?

May God Help and Direct us all into the right path and direction always – Ameen – Amen

Take Care!

Majid Al Suleimany

New Granddad Sibel 1 Sibel 2 Sibel Sybil New

Sibel bint Fahad bin Majid Al Suleimany

We talk to them in Arabic, English, Swahili, — and in this case her Mother is Pakistani so also Urdu and in Hindi!!

Being on Top of The World!

After Compliments;

This week was very hectic for me – despite all the good happy news!

Watch “The Carpenters – Top Of The World” on YouTube –

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRgNIQ32G1o 

Or latest version (modern)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baSUO3zjneA&feature=youtube_gdata_player

First – my son Fahad and his wife Tabinda (Tab) have been blessed with a baby girl planned to be named Sibel – see below!

New Granddad

Me and my new grand daughter Sibel

Sibel 1 Sibel 2

This is Sibel – The Turkish Actress – as she looks!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sibel

See above –  for meaning of Sibel

Second – My last daughter and child Marwa got married to Suhaib Nasser Al Sibani at Masjid Araimi on Friday December 27th 2013.

This is her photo a few years back with my other 3 grand daughters – Aliyazah (spotted dress), Maria (white & brown) and Ritaal (light blue dress)

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Yes – I attended the Wedding ceremony at The Masjid – taking courage from the deeds and acts of Our Great Prophet PBUH and The Hadith and The Islamic References – as below!

  • …. On the contrary live with them, on a footing of kindness and equity –

The Holy Quran Ch.4:19 – Surah – Chapter 4 – The Women 

Some More Sayings

  • And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them, according to what is equitable ……  And Allah is Exalted in power, WiseThe Holy Quran 2:228.
  • The Believers, men and women, are protectors one of another. They enjoin what is just, and forbid what is evil  …..  The Holy Quran  9:71
  • There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds!Laurel Hamilton

So I am a man of the world – Live and Let Live!

Best Wishes and Regards,

Majid Al Suleimany – December 28th 2013